It's MY Crisis and I'll Cry if I Need To: How to Cope with the Murder of a Child

Thursday, July 14, 2011

How to Cope with the Murder of a Child

B'SD

12 Tamuz 5771

We're already reeling from the Cayley Anthony horror. I've spent the past few days praying with much of the world for the safe return of Leiby Kletzky H'YD, with the rest of the concerned world.

It was not to be.

Agony is the only word that comes to mind after a sleepless night. We adults struggle to grasp the magnitude of the horror of Leiby's murder. Children moreso.

Perhaps this video will help you to speak with your children about the situation. Click
VIDEO FROM CHAI LIFELINE: Norman Blumenthal, Ph.D. On How To Talk To Your Kids About the Recent Tragedy

This might help YOU: http://www.aish.com/jw/s/In_Memory_of_Leiby_Kletzky.html

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ajlounyinjurylaw said...: It's a sick person that would take and kill an innocent. Liebby, you didn’t make it to moon in this lifetime, but with your outstretched arm, you’ve slipped the surly bonds of earth and gone to touch the face of God. RIP; July 15, 2011 at 4:09 AM

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Thursday, July 14, 2011

How to Cope with the Murder of a Child

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