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Friday, October 24, 2014



B'SD

29/30 Tishrei, 5775

My schedule's been a bit unpredictable this week, and full of interesting happenings. Last night I was part of the security detail at a city-wide event. While patrolling the perimeter, a participant called out to me (in Hebrew) "We need an ambulance!"

Someone in the crowd had passed out while standing up and chatting with her friends. 

The pre-arranged and on-site ambulance crew took care of her, and I'm pleased to have been part of the effort. Part of the patient's problem seems to have been dehydration despite our cool weather. Be sure to sip water throughout your day, no matter the temperature. The human body needs fluids 365 days of the year!


***
 I'm ending the work-week with the 5th and final part of the "Talk About Your Medicines" month blogpost.

You're invited to comment about any of the blogposts. I tend to respond quickly and I look forward to interacting with you.

Here's an FYI about the sponsor of this week's blogpost series:

The American Recall Center, which promotes the Talk About Your Medicines month blogging effort, is concerned about the drug Xarelto. Click the link to learn about that medication.

OK, here's the wrap-up for this week (the highlighted text focuses on medication specifically), another excerpt from the EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge book:


Organization

Doctors appointments, insurance papers, calls to make, child care issues, nosy neighbors, relatives who just don’t "Get it," have you seen the baby, meals to prepare, pills and potions to swallow or shots to inject, omigawd we need a really BIG bank account, where are my keys, did anyone see the remote and why is the dog making noise like that?

Ever feel as if your inner PC and its memory banks just went and shut down on you? Read on and find some solutions to the problem.

Many people facing medical crises have so much to remember that their inner filing cabinets overflow. They reach a point where they wonder if they’re losing their minds! Know the feeling? You forget almost everything? Even how old you are?

As you read earlier, I experienced no less than five benign brain tumors and their surgical removal. A human head does not have much space for tolerating all that intrusion and banging around upon soft brains. People who’ve experienced brain injury often suffer memory problems. So can anyone facing any type medical crisis. Stress hurts. And medical intervention messes up the insides of your body even more! I lost some memorization ability after my treatments. I benefited from a rehabilitation program for the brain injured. Students of every age in my program learned many tips for vastly improving our memory power. Here are a few tips I'll share with you:

Keep a reasonably sized notebook or day-planner with you all the time. Record upcoming: appointments, social events, PTA meetings and other important scheduled stuff as soon as you commit to it or even hear of it.

Keep repeating a person's name in the conversation as normally as possible when you first meet.

Collect business cards when offered to you. On the back, make notes of where you met and what they look like, your 1st impressions of the person, anything remarkable they said, e.g., Redhead, skinny, laughs a lot. Met at Joe's celebration dinner

Put your stuff away in the same place all the time. NO LAZY SHORTCUTS! Shoes and clothes go in closets, not in chairs, the wrong room or atop doors.

Kitchenware gets washed, dried and immediately put away. When you're cooking, ALWAYS use a timer to alert you to shut off the heat.

Me, I keep my keys in the front door once I lock it from inside. I wear them on a cloth strap, a key strip around my neck, when I leave home. I never lose keys anymore.

Ever seen the funky new chains for holding your glasses around your neck? Use the one of your affordable choice. No need to feel like a moth-eaten relic. The new styles are super-trendy. And you won't lose your glasses.

Using the above techniques jogs the memory cells. Watch. You'll end up teaching folks who never had tumors, brain injuries or any sort of medical stress how improve THEIR memories!

The human body is full of quirky surprises. Some of them are quite interesting and not life-threatening. Follow the suggestions above and good advice from your therapists and medical team. Not every forgotten thought is a danger sign. Now, on to some techniques for straightening out that mother lode of medical and insurance paperwork…

As you make your way through your medical crisis or that of your loved one, the pile of papers with important phone numbers, addresses and other information will grow. If you fail to organize it, the mess can make a wreck of your get-well efforts.

If you're the sort of person who hasn't yet succeeded at organizing your life, I offer sweet solace with simple advice:

“Habit is habit, and not to be flung out the window but coaxed downstairs one step at a time.” – Mark Twain

Here's my Five-Step Plan to Organization: Some simple suggestions for keeping your papers and yourself organized:

STEP ONE: First: Sort out the papers that you have. Place test results in one pile, with newer results on top and older results at the bottom.

Do this for every health care provider organization and insurance company, prescription, referral, medical payment approval etc. with newer paper work on top and older results at the bottom (I highly recommend photocopying each medical payment, insurance or medical approval and prescription. Do this before a medical or insurance person takes it from you when you receive the relevant medical service or buy your medication).

Second: Separate anything written by your Primary Care Physician from the pile of health care provider organization stuff.

Set aside all papers from the hospital.

Keep all discs of MRIs, CT scans and other tests in a pile of their own.

Third: If you do not own a day-planner, buy one with ample space for recording upcoming appointments, tasks to be accomplished, questions for your doctors, and a contact information area (names, addresses, phone and Fax numbers, E-mail addresses, medical specialty). I recommend filling in each day's updates in pencil rather than in pen. Appointments change and scratch-outs make the pages harder to read. Cleanly erased obsolete notes are a big improvement over jagged lines crossing out stuff you no longer need to remember.

IMPORTANT: Select a blank page in your day planner on which you can record all the medicines you take, how often you take them and WHY. Many people forget (especially when they feel stressed) why they take some pills or potions. De-stress your life with good record keeping. And do take time to list all the questions that you want your doctors to answer. I like to note those questions in the blank space under noted appointments or on a page designated for that purpose.

Decide where it will be smartest for you to record new symptoms that you want to discuss with medical professionals. That way, you won't slap your head and ask out loud to nobody in particular "Oh #@@!, why didn't I bring that up during my appointment with Dr. So and So?"

Your preparations can improve the chances that you will select the right doctor to treat you. You will be prepared to ask relevant questions. Focused discussions will reveal if a particular medical professional A) treats your concerns seriously and 2) has the expertise to deal with your medical situation.







Have you enjoyed this series of informative blogposts?

Imagine what the rest of the book is like, as it addresses moods, self-esteem, packing for hospital stays, how to deal with rude medical professionals, in-laws and outlaws.

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Feel better again, even if you have an on-going medical or mental health issue.


 

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Why Caregivrs NEED to Close their Mouths - Part 4 of Talk About Your Medicines month



B'SD

28 Tishrei, 5775

The first month of the new Jewish year is almost over. Thousands of people worldwide resolved to improve their mindsets, behaviors and more.

More people will be doing that as January approaches!

But gosh it's hard to keep up the momentum, over time. So, I'll share a charming idea with you. It's the motto of one of my friends, and she's rather spectacular in her dealings with the wider world.


Be the type of person you want to meet.

Nice, huh?

As you work on bettering your very self, here are some tips for protecting yourself and the person you're caring for, from accidental medical harm, Part 4 of this week's Talk About Your Medicines month series (yes, I highlighted text about medication again so you can locate it easily):

Listen to the Person Before You - Lessons for Caregivers

I'm going to address a troubling problem for ill people: rude and cruel caregivers who pay little, if any, attention to the patient’s remarks. I've witnessed this maddening glitch first-hand as a witness to, and as the victim of, someone's failure to listen.

Many caregivers insist that they are noble, correct and in charge when caring for patients be they friends, relatives or clients. HOWEVER... here's how the conversations between some caregivers and the people they're allegedly caring for tend to go (fill in the blanks as appropriate.):

"I know what you need..."

"I want to..."

"Stop talking. Listen to me; I know what's best for you..."

"I'm going to... Now just stop that and let me..."

"I don't want to hear you say 'I can't.' Would you just let me...?"

Did you hear the sick person above the din? Me neither. And far too often that silence leads to a deteriorating patient who's already ill, and an increasingly strained relationship.

The name of the problem is "Inflated Ego." Or what is sometimes called "I Disease." The caregiver is bossing around the ill person, issuing this barrage of "I, I, I, I," messages while genuine medical needs go unmet. This is not a healthy situation. So, I'm providing a reality alert: The caregiver is NOT the most important person in this scene. The patient is the VIP (Very Important Person) here!

Here's the information that's being drowned out, along with the despairing person who needs medical help:

"That's the wrong medication/food you're giving me."

"You're hurting me when you move me around so hard. I'm not a rock."

"You're still holding the wrong medication/food."

"The doctor said not to do it like that. You're supposed to read the directions."

"You bet I'm upset! Please stop talking/shouting/screaming over me and listen. Just listen!"

***

Ready to close your mouths and find out how to solve the problem? Great! Hold that pose while the ill person in your care expresses their concerns. Next, wait for him or her to ask you to explain what you heard and understood. Only then may you speak. Get it? Conversation is an interactive activity.

When you enter the ill person's room, do not start talking. Smile. Observe the scene: does the ill person seem tired/rested/content/upset/warm/cold/in or out of pain?

Ask the patient these questions, one at a time: "How are you?" and "Did anything change since we last spoke?" "Please tell me if you want something." Then LISTEN without interrupting as the person responds to you, one question at a time.

Do not treat sick people as fools. Do not threaten them. Do not speak in a condescending manner to people who are sick. You might be dealing with neurological or physiological changes that the patient(s) cannot control. This is not a matter of patient willpower, this is a medical reality. You might not realize the level of physical or emotional pain you're unnecessarily causing to that person. You just might damage someone's already fragile health by using the wrong medicine, medical appliance or food item, let alone the wrong attitude.

Ordering ill people to "Snap out of it! Stop acting sad and sick" is cruel. Behave respectfully or have someone else perform the personal care. Your change in behavior just might improve someone's quality of life. Prevent unwarranted suffering. Remember: communication is supposed to be fair and productive. Good communication ends in relief.

One more item on this sensitive subject: study the sick person's behavior and body when hired help is providing medical care. Elder abuse and other abuses in the medical world exist. Prevent and end them by practicing good sense. Listen with your ears, eyes and heart.

Here’s a handy list of caregiver tips, developed from my personal experience and that of some of my Self-Help Coaching clients:
·         Make a chart of all medications used by the loved one you’re helping. Tactfully help him or her to remember to take those medicines.
·         Ask everyone who enters the patient’s room if they have washed their hands. "No" and silence are NOT acceptable responses.
·         Ask nurses to read drug orders out loud and match them to the patient’s arm bracelet BEFORE giving something to the patient.
·         Bring easily portable stuff on visits: a deck of cards, iPODs or other devices for playing music, or something else that the patient enjoys. Coax the patient to use his or her brain.
·         Keep a little notebook with your observations so you can discuss your concerns with medical staff, family and friends in a productive NOT GOSSIPY manner. Write the notes discreetly. Trust me, sick people notice things. And we tend to be easily upset.
·         NEVER give a patient medication without proper supervision.
·         Don’t help the patient in and out of bed unless the medical staff trained you to do this safely.
·         Help the sick person to escape the confines of being ill. A car ride, a day in the park or gentle beach, perhaps a shopping center with comfortable seating areas, a family event, are just some ideas for trips. Cabin fever can slow down recovery and coping processes. Changes in scenery can work wonders.
·         Cheerfully help with housework: cooking, cleaning, child care, lawn care, etc. Find out if meals can be safely made by other people.
·         Allow the person to speak about their medical/emotional crisis. The release leads to perspective, emotional relief and healing. In mental circles, this is called "venting" and wow it's a great help!
·         Chat with the patient about life. Your work, news headlines, funny incidents, something other than illness.
·         Forgive the person for saying or doing something unusual. Some medications affect behavior and memory, let alone body functions. Thinking clearly might be a struggle for someone coming out of anesthesia or taking medications. The challenging medical situation is a hard thing to manage on its own.
·         Bite your lips! Don’t focus on what your loved one can or cannot do. Infantilizing a person facing a medical or emotional crisis is cruel and harmful. DO FOCUS on what the person can do and intends to do. Meeting goals, and trying to do so, is strengthening in many ways.
·         Assist the person in your care when they’re taking medication. Wipe lips as necessary, and with a gentle touch. Remember also, that eyesight might be affected. He or she I might not be able to read the small print on the bottle.
·         Be gracious about sleeping problems. A person facing illness could have difficulty sleeping. Gently and firmly explore what will help the person to relax, to enjoy restful, restorative sleep.
·         Empower the patient. Let him or her make choices, use the television remote and anything else they’d like to do within reason. Offer to help the person to create a list of goals on a paper or a poster-board they can more easily read. Check off accomplishments and celebrate them.
·         Have patience. Be respectful. Know that you cannot possibly understand the illness experience from the patient’s perspective. Some things are hard to convey. Practice a compassionate pose on your facial muscles. Use it often. 


Yes, it's all about "Be the type of person you want to meet."

By the way, have you noticed that The American Recall Center, which promotes the Talk About Your Medicines month blogging effort, is concerned about the drug Xarelto, "... a medication used to prevent stroke and blood clots that has recently shown to cause internal bleeding?"


Click the title at the end of this sentence to buy the E-book or print edition of EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge.  

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Fill your future, and everyone's, with more compassion. And better manners.

 

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Why the Western World is in Surprisingly Poor Health

B'SD

25 Adar 1, 5774

WHEW! Medical Coding classes have filled my daily schedule and free time with lots of work. I study and take exams around the clock. Graduation in May is coming up, so I am uber-focused on completing my hard work and doing well. 

I'm completing a 2-year college course in under one year. LOTS of work!

What I've learned along the way is that the rates of heart disease, cancer, stroke, and mental health problems have risen with the passing years. 

A rather shocking number of people in the Western world are in fragile health. They need to slow down, to enjoy pleasant past times, and to fill up on wholesome foods, not the pre-packaged, highly adulterated stuff sold in stores. That junk is sickening the people who eat it, including children who don't know any better.

Trust the medical world: There is no proof that you need preservatives, color - smell - taste enhancers, pesticides, synthetic hormones or other poisons in your diet. Ever.

I learned the hard way, when I went from blind to sighted by dumping commercially prepared "food" from my menu.

Each year I prepare whole home made foods in the baskets of treats I share with friends on Purim. The happy holiday happens in about 3 weeks. Here's a peek at the highly detailed story: Purim Animated.

 

Buy the E-book or print edition of EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge.  

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Fill your lives with what you need.

(PS - Medical Coding is the translation of medical records from hospitals, clinics, private doctor offices etc, into alpha-numeric codes that tell insurers and medical researchers why a specific person needed medical care, what was done for them, what worked or failed and the prognoses for the patient's future)

 

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Heart Surgeon Explains What REALLY Causes Heart Disease

B'SD

12 Tamuz, 5773

I often comment on Facebook or in real life that conventional medical practitioners need to heed the proven lessons of the natural healing world. "Keep up with the class, you're behind the curve" is my frequent comment.

I'm pleased to share this online revelation with you:

Heart surgeon speaks out on what really causes heart disease


When you're ready to find out how to change your lifestyle to promote your health in can-do and affordable ways, read



Doctors recommend it on the cover and in their offices.



Ready? 

Set? 

BUY 

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Face Your Future with Optimism. 

Fitness is not about manipulative mass media messages.



 

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Inside Out: Plant-based Nutrition Supports Your Health

B'SD

5 Shvat, 5773


This video is making its way across the Internet and I want to share it with you. 

Lots of worthwhile lessons are packed into this presentation, and it didn't even address the cancer-causing nitrates in commercial meat and meat "products."

Listen with your mind wide open. The video can turn your concept of good nutrition inside out. 


Plants, not products, support human health.

Need proof that pure food can turn medical nightmares into enviable dreams?

READ


and learn how I began to see again by becoming a vegetarian. Medical experts didn't believe it was possible.

The book is full of humor, information and step-by-step encouragement. It can help you to deal with many  heath-related issues, not just nutrition.



Buy the E-book or print edition today for a brighter holiday season: Click on the words EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge

Face Your Medical Problems with Dignity. Face Your Future with Optimism. 

Feed yourself nourishing food. It's empowering. Fireman Rip Esselstyn just told you so!

 

Sunday, January 30, 2011

How to Improve YOUR Life Expectancy

B'SD

25 Shvat 5771




Scary medical news: Life Expectancy Lags in the U.S.
Life expectancy in the U.S. lags behind that of many other high-income countries and is currently ranked by the United Nations at number 28, despite spending the most on healthcare, according to a National Academy of Sciences report. In 2006, the... full story at
http://www.medpagetoday.com/PublicHealthPolicy/PublicHealth/tb/24564


OK, readers, that wasn't me lecturing you about putting out the smokes or going on better diets. That was the medical establishment counting the ways that Gonna-Be Patients are ruining their health.

Learn how to take on a healthier lifestyle with a smile and some humor. As I note in



“Habit is habit, and not to be
flung out the window but
coaxed downstairs one step at a time.”
– Mark Twain





Improve your life expectancy as reasonably as possible, one step at a time. Start by reading E-book EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge TODAY. Buy it at
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Face Your Medical Problems with Dignity.
Face Your Future with Optimism.




Thursday, December 30, 2010

EMPOWER Yourself Scoops MSM a Gazillion & 9 Times!

B'SD

23 Tevet 5771


I have a running joke on Facebook about how many times the information found in
"scooped" Mainstream Media (MSM) since its publication. I've estimated a "Gazillion" or so incidents of headlines echoing the content of my previously published work.


Today I noted that online article
Antioxidants Lower Risk of Stroke presents the Gazillion 9th time, so to speak, that my E-book, blog and coaching suggestions beat Mainstream Media to the deadline.

Don't delay in caring for your health sensibly and cost-effectively. BUY EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge TODAY!




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Face Your Future with Optimism.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Is Your TV Making You Diabetic? Putting You at Risk for High Blood Pressure? Or...



B'SD

28 Sivan 5770


My Facebook page recently filled with comments about how often western medical experts and neutral researchers are proving me correct for advising you to go organic, and at minimum to avoid foods and other substances that can seriously damage your health.

Today I'm sharing a sense of
"Told Ya So"
at this blog.

MedPage Today's Cole Petrochko cautions us that You Cannot Eat What Your TV Tells You

If you insist on filling up on this too often (c'mon, I know it's delicious and OK to have once in a while), or breakfasting on this everyday







Then you're facing a lifetime
of this on your dinnerplate,
before and after parties
and all through your vacations
and hospitalizations:




Give yourself time to consider the consequences. When you're ready for sensible, can-do strategies for changing your dining habits and improving other aspects of your health situation, read EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge.





Coping with a Medical Crisis?
Make the Changes You Need in Your Life

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

DOUBLE Your Weight Loss & Keep It Off with 1 Proven, Simple Strategy


B'SD

17 Sivan 5770


Being overweight increases your chances of stroke, heart attack and other medical problems. I know, it's hard to limit food intake by 500 calories and to create a caloric deficit by burning 500 more calories than you swallow. Here's some good news:

Kaiser Permanente found out something simple and effective for losing weight and keeping it off. Read DOUBLE Your Weight Loss.

Build On Your Small Successes! Learn more effective strategies for managing a medical crisis. Read
EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge.




Coping with a Medical Crisis?
Make the Changes You Need in Your Life

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Beau Biden and Anyone Who's Had a Stroke Need to Know This

B'SD

29 Iyar 5770


Anyone who has suffered a stroke (and their loved ones) knows that they'll need a A LOT of information on how to meet their unplanned medical needs. The frightening aftermath can include: loss of speech, loss of physical abilities, loss of confidence and loss of family plus social life.


Expensive therapy is a whole other matter.

The good news is that all of this is covered in It's MY Crisis! And I'll Cry If I Need To: EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge.

The book addresses the EMOTIONAL IMPACT of any illness - mental, emotional and physical. The GLOBAL RESOURCES section in the back lets you know how to get low-cost or free medical care, medical appliances, medical transportation, money to pay medical bills and much more!

There is literally nothing else this inclusive on the book market.

I sure hope Joe Biden buys a copy for his family.



Yocheved Golani

Coping with a Medical Crisis?
Make the Changes You Need in Your Life

Monday, December 28, 2009

Seeing STARS or a Life-Endangering Stroke?




B'SD





11 Tevet 5770



From time to time I receive E-mails filled with knuckle-whitening news of terrible medical realities. This week's scare-fest concerned strokes aka Cerebrovascular Accidents (CVAs). Like other such messages, it was filled with errors, urban legends and irresponsible scare-mongering about the STAR method of identifying strokes (I choose not to share the method with you as it has not been endorsed by leading medical authorities).

I deeply dislike such messages. They mislead unsuspecting innocents, distracting readers from factual Save-a-Life and Quality-of-Life information.

Here's a quick education on some relevant realities:






Get facts from the American Stroke Association.

OK, class. You've read the reality. Take protective action: Skip the scary E-mails with confusing photos and testimonies from folks you've never heard of before.

Want to learn how to cope with a stroke? Read EMPOWER Yourself to Cope with a Medical Challenge.

I plan to be tapping at you again in a few days. I'm off for a brief, well-earned vacation.

Yocheved Golani
Coping with a Medical Crisis?
Make the Changes You Need in Your Life

Friday, April 3, 2009

Tailwinds Rehabilitate Stroke Patients!


B'SD


8 Nissan 5769



Boaters will be surprised to learn that tailwinds are also helpful to people who've experienced debilitating strokes. "Tailwind" is the name of a new rehabilitation device on the medical market. It helps people to regain physical strength and coordination.


I've worked with stroke patients and deeply understand the frustration and struggle of relearning how to control muscles. The following news report sheds light on a once dark part of medical life. Share it with anyone who's had a stroke and with their medical team:








Click on
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To your good health,

Yojeved Golani
Coping with a Medical Crisis?
Make the Changes You Need in Your Life

Friday, October 10, 2008

Here's How to Boost Your Brain Power. Even after a Stroke!



B'SD




11 Tishrei


STROKE recently included an interesting report from researchers at Johns Hopkins. It suggests that Ginkgo Biloba prevents cell death and more. "Our results suggest that some element or elements in ginkgo actually protect brain cells during stroke," said lead researcher Sylvain Doré, Ph.D., an associate professor in the Department of Anesthesiology and Critical Care Medicine at Johns Hopkins.

I've experienced the healing power of Ginkgo Biloba. I've taken it regularly since my brain surgery. It clearly helped me to focus better, to improve my memory, and more back when medical professionals were skeptical of my post-surgical intellectual abilities.

If my anecdotal experience doesn't convince you of Ginkgo's healing potential, read on: "Ginkgo has long been touted for its positive effects on the brain and is even prescribed in Europe and Asia for memory loss," says Doré. "If further work confirms what we've seen, we could theoretically recommend a daily regimen of ginkgo to people at high risk of stroke as a preventive measure against brain damage."

The Ginkgo tree grows in China (there used to be several types, but Ginkgo Biloba is the only form of the tree presently known). You can buy Ginkgo Biloba pills at your local health food store.



You can learn other equally simple strategies for preserving your health in my book. BUY YOUR COPY TODAY. Then check out the "RESOURCES" section for more information about protecting your brain!

To your good health,

Yojeved Golani
Coping with a Medical Crisis?
Make the Changes You Need in Your Life.